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Meet-day etiquette

How to be a good competitor and a good audience.

Competitors

Before the round

  • Be at your room before the round starts. If someone is already performing, wait outside until they finish.
  • Dress the way your team does; most students wear business or dressy clothes. Ask your coach.

In the room

  • Phone off and away.
  • Go in and out only between speakers.
  • Never record a round, not even your own performance. Video taping at a tournament is never allowed.
  • Many tournaments ask you to stay for the whole round. If yours does, stay.
  • Listen to every speaker the way you want them to listen to you.

After

  • Thank your judge.
  • Don’t ask the judge about your rank or argue a decision. Your coach gets the ballot.

Families & audience

Before the round

  • Ask your child first. Some students would rather perform without family in the room.
  • Competitors and judges get seats first. If the room is full, wait for the next round.

In the room

  • Wait outside until a speaker finishes. Go in between speakers, when the judge waves you in.
  • Never record video in a round, not even your own child. Video taping at a tournament is never allowed.
  • Silence your phone and keep it away while anyone is performing.
  • No signals from the audience: no time hints, no mouthing lines.
  • Stay until the speaker is done. If you must leave, go between speakers.

After

  • Don’t talk to the judge about the round or your child, before or after.
  • You won’t see scores during the day. The first news is the break posting.

No judge, wrong room, or a speaker missing? Find the tab room. Don’t sort it out in the room.

Each host can add its own rules. When in doubt, ask the host or your coach.